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Rethinking Invitations in the 2026 Kindergarten Curriculum

Many of us are probably wondering what the new Ontario Kindergarten Curriculum will look like in classrooms that have embraced play-based learning for so many years. How will play fit into our teaching now that the curriculum places a stronger emphasis on structured literacy and numeracy?

The most substantive change in the 2026 Kindergarten Curriculum is the focus on evidence-based systematic and explicit instruction in foundational language and mathematics. However, I don’t see this as a rejection of the 2016 Kindergarten Program. Instead, I see it as an iteration that builds on what we have already been doing while placing a stronger emphasis on intentionally teaching foundational knowledge and skills.

For me, this means that play is not something we move away from. Instead, it is something we become even more intentional about. The curriculum recognizes three instructional approaches: evidence-based systematic and explicit instruction, student-centred play, and inquiry-based learning. As educators, we determine which approach, or combination of approaches, will be most effective when planning responsive and inclusive Kindergarten programs.

One of the things I have always loved about teaching kindergarten is creating simple invitations to play. There was something joyful about setting up materials with intention before students arrived and then watching their curiosity lead them.

With the new curriculum, those invitations still have an important place in our classrooms. Rather than thinking that every learning experience needs to begin with an invitation or that every experience needs to begin with direct instruction, we can think more intentionally about the learning goal and which instructional approach will best support it. Sometimes that may mean explicitly teaching a skill first and then providing opportunities for children to practise and apply it through play. At other times, play or inquiry may be the starting point that allows us to observe children’s thinking and determine what they are ready to learn next. This balance is what I find most exciting.

Outdoor learning continues to be one of my favourite places for this to happen. It is a powerful environment where children can build on classroom learning while developing oral language, early reading, number sense, and problem-solving in authentic and meaningful ways.

Let’s imagine that you have just finished teaching a lesson on one-to-one correspondence. Rather than moving to a tabletop activity or a worksheet, students head outside to an invitation filled with pinecones, sticks, and stones. Suddenly, those natural materials become tools for counting with accuracy, comparing quantities, making sets, creating patterns, and talking about their mathematical thinking. The same materials can also become a follow-up to a literacy lesson where students describe, label, sequence events, and build their oral language and vocabulary.

In this example, the play experience is not replacing explicit instruction. Instead, it provides children with an opportunity to practise and apply the knowledge and skills they have been taught in a meaningful context. The learning is intentionally connected to the curriculum and to the learning that came before it, while still allowing children the freedom to explore, problem-solve, communicate, and make choices within their play.

The other day, while spending time outdoors with a group of kindergarten students, we started talking about the hot weather and all the ways we like to stay cool. It immediately brought back memories of some of my favourite outdoor invitations. It also made me realize that many of these experiences fit beautifully within the new curriculum with just a slight shift in our planning.

One outdoor setup that became a class favourite was a fence music wall made from old pots, pans, lids, and wooden spoons. Students gathered to explore sounds and rhythms, and every group used it differently. Some created songs, others made repeating rhythm patterns, and a few worked together to put on their own performances.

Now, we might explicitly teach students to hear and produce syllables, clap simple rhythm patterns, or identify beginning sounds in words and then provide opportunities for students to practise these skills through play. To further build on the connection between the lesson and the play, we could add word cards to the music wall using words from our explicit instruction. Students can clap the syllables in each word, identify beginning sounds, read familiar words, or use the cards as they create chants and rhythms. Once outdoors, students can continue practising those same skills by experimenting with rhythm, creating rhymes, and sharing ideas with one another. The invitation becomes a meaningful way to reinforce foundational literacy skills while keeping the joy and agency of play at the centre.

Another favourite was our PVC waterfall wall attached to the fence. Equipped with funnels, tubing, cups, and containers, children spent long stretches of time testing ideas, changing the flow of water, and solving problems together.

Following explicit instruction on comparing capacity or using mathematical language such as full, empty, more, less, and equal, we can provide opportunities for children to practise those concepts in a hands-on way outdoors. They can estimate, compare, measure, test predictions, and explain their thinking as they work together. In this way, the play experience reinforces mathematical language and concepts while giving children opportunities to apply what they have learned in a meaningful and engaging context.

There are so many other outdoor invitations that can be adapted just as easily.

Looking back, I realize that invitations to play have always been about creating meaningful opportunities for children to explore and make sense of the world around them. That hasn’t changed.

What has changed is the way we may think about the relationship between explicit instruction, play, and inquiry. The 2026 Kindergarten Curriculum does not mean that we need to choose between explicit instruction and play-based learning. Instead, it asks us to be intentional about how and when we use different instructional approaches to support children’s learning.

If anything, the new Kindergarten Curriculum reminds us that explicit instruction and purposeful play can work beautifully together. When we intentionally teach foundational skills and then provide engaging opportunities to practise and apply them through play, we create learning experiences that are both purposeful and joyful. The goal is not to replace play with explicit instruction, but to create a thoughtful balance where children receive the instruction they need while still having meaningful opportunities to explore, experiment, communicate, problem-solve, and learn through play.

The Joys of Co-Teaching: Part 2

Hello Fellow Travellers,

In response to Part 1 of this conversation, a collaborative thought partner asked me some key questions. From those questions, I have synthesized the gist for us to think through and respond here:

  • As some of our members have not had the chance to have co-teaching opportunities, what would you say to those who wonder how realistic these opportunities are for them?
  • How can we support early career teachers who may not know about how they can do this?
  • What if an instructional coach or consultant does not offer? How can they look into this?

One Size Does Not Fit All

I do understand that everyone is not ready to reach out to someone within the school or outside the school. Some members may be unaware of the possibilities and promise in this practical strategy–and the many benefits of a co-modelled pedagogical partnership.

Look around you and take small steps.

Follow someone’s work on social media if you prefer that path.

First Things First

For new teachers, it is important to think about planning or examining curriculum expectations as well as assessment practices. For that ETFO has many easily accessible resources on the Members site. Register and login to access them.

Sometimes, it is a matter of reaching out to colleagues you meet at professional learning workshops in your school district or those you may attend with ETFO – ask to partner because these collaborations do not always germinate in one work site as well when they thrive across different locations the learning is richer because we can learn from one another.

Please reach out, as I like hearing from you.

With You, In Solidarity.

Rashmee Karnad-Jani

The Joys of Co-Teaching: A Grade 7 Experience (Part 1)

What Do You Value Most?

In the work that we do as ETFO members, many of us know and speak about the things we value most. Collaborative colleagueship, connections with families and time spent with students on a daily basis are the three things that matter a lot to me.  There are others but I shall speak about them at another time.

Collaborative Colleagueship

I have listed this aspect at the beginning because without this key ingredient, the other two do not quite work out the way one would like. Although we may be identically credentialed as Ontario Certified Teachers, we may have more in common with some colleagues in terms of beliefs, interests, advocacy practices and so on.  It is important, therefore, to listen and be present because even when people may have very different interests, our professional standpoints may align and lead to a long and productive working relationship. Therefore, an open mind and a learning stance are key. 

Connections With Families

Even though right now,  I am not in direct contact with families the same way as I was when I was a school-based teacher, I am always delighted when I attend school events, awards ceremonies, graduation or meetings with families because there are multiple opportunities to learn from people who know our students well.  That said, I am delighted that in September, I am going back to a school-based assignment as a Special Education Resource Teacher or SERT. 

Time Spent with Students

This is the heartbeat of the work that you and I do, isn’t it?

In the May-June period, I was invited to co-teach with a colleague and it was a Grade 7 classroom, the same spot where I started my career over two decades ago. I was excited and curious whether things have changed a lot in the teacher-student relationship since 2015, because that was the year I moved to teach Kindergarten to Grade 3 and then moved on to teach Grades 3-4.

Joining A Conversation 

Co-teaching is like joining a conversation. It is not about going in with “here’s what I know” but asking “what are you working on and how can I walk with you?” In collaborating with my colleague at this school, I learned that the students had been engaged in rich learning experiences and were at the stage of their learning where they were working on products such as videos and other presentation forms to showcase their understanding.  They were writing biographies. Their guiding question was “Who Deserves a Biography?”

Who Are You? 

 It is amazing how all students may have questions but whether they ask them directly or not is largely based on their age-grade-comfort level as well as other factors. 

In younger grades, there is never any qualm about asking who I am and what my favorite colour or ice cream flavour is.

Two scoops of ice cream with red plastic spoons stuck in each are sandwiched in a candy encrusted cookie set against the backdrop of a red table.
My not-quite-favourite ice cream flavours (when I was trying something new)

 In Grade 7, there is a distance, smiles and nods but no direct questions yet. So what do I do?

I Invite Questions

I say to students, “I am a visitor in your classroom and while your teacher has introduced me by name, I am sure you have other things you are wondering about. Please ask me one question per table group and we will go around one more time if you want to ask more.” I also let them know that I shall answer the questions the next time I visit the class so as not to take up too much of their class time that day. After some consultation, the students come up with questions.

Neither my colleague nor I  had to re-direct any questions because the students in all the classes where I have done this work keep their norms of engagement in mind it appears. 

The Questions 

  1. What challenges did you face in your life?
  2. What are some other jobs, study and career that you have done?
  3. What was your early life and household environment like?
  4. What made you want to be an author?
  5. What impact have you made on the lives of others?
  6. What is your current life like at home and outside?
  7. What were your life goals as a child?
  8. What are some of your achievements and accomplishments?
  9. Why did you immigrate to Canada?
  10. Where were you born?

These last two questions were greeted by sharp intake of breath by some students.  My colleague and I discussed later that in our next co-teaching visit, I would begin there. 

Reading Together

Remember this book I had spoken about in an earlier conversation with you? This copy was available in the classroom although I had brought my own.

I read it to the Grade 7 class and promised to come back when their teacher and I coordinate time to co-teach.  I thanked them for welcoming me. 

Heartfelt Thanks 

I am aware that everyone does not get such opportunities.

I am therefore deeply grateful when colleagues make room, pull up a chair, share their vision for their students’ learning. When we collaborate this way, it lets me see that these realities are very much present and possible in the brick and mortar buildings in which we do our work and if the conditions do not allow for this to happen yet, there are partnership possibilities across work sites. 

We do find our people. We just have to show up and tune in. 

With You, In Solidarity

Rashmee Karnad-Jani

Structured Literacy Shift # 7 – Structured Read Alouds

In the beginning of my career, read alouds used to be a one-time event. To be quite honest, not much planning went into it, besides ensuring it connects with current learning goals. However, in recent years, I have changed my approach. Read alouds are now more purposeful, and usually a more structured lesson. To read about my other shifts, see below:

Structured read-alouds made me more intentional with how I introduce texts in my classroom community. Rather than reading it once and moving on, I return to the same text with a clear purpose each day. This allows students to experience the text in different ways and at different depths. 

  • Day 1: Read for pleasure; It is often a shared starting point, where students can simply listen, enjoy, and begin to connect with the story. I often introduce the author, ask some pre-reading, during reading and post-reading questions orally with the students to help build understanding. 
  • Day 2-3: Vocabulary; I explicitly introduce Tier 2 vocabulary and re-read the text. Students make meaning together through discussion, and making real-life connections. This is often followed up by an “exit ticket” after some collaborative work, so I can assess understanding. 
  • Day 4-5: Knowledge building/comprehension tasks: By this point, students are ready to think more deeply about the message, the characters, or the author’s purpose. The students often engage in some collaborative work around these tasks. 

Afterwards, I may introduce other texts or media related to the same message or learning, even if it is not a multi-day read-aloud. This helps extend thinking and build connections across texts and ideas (also known as text sets).

This shift showed me that understanding does not happen all at once. It grows through revisiting, conversation, and time. When I stay with a text longer, my students have more opportunities to think deeply, speak confidently, and notice more of the author’s message.

Structured read-alouds have helped me see that depth matters more than speed. By giving a text time, I am also giving my students time, and that time makes the learning stronger. This is equitable practice, as it supports all learners. 

I highly recommend “Ramped-Up Read Aloud” by Maria Walther to deepen your understanding of structured read alouds further!

Representation Wins

Those who know me are well aware of my love of live events and especially concerts and musicals.  I love the theatrics, the costumes, the soundtracks. Something beautiful comes together on the stage in that very moment of storytelling that makes the characters come alive through the music and the shared experience. 

I’ve never really found the same love for sports, though.  Don’t get me wrong, put me in a live audience and I’m cheering with the best of them!  But I don’t follow a specific team and I’m not a sports fanatic. I’ve always felt a little removed from sports and the athletes seemed a little impersonal to me.  It’s a storyline I just can’t follow with a lot of excitement or connection. 

Lately, that seems to be changing.  

With the spotlight on women’s sports, I’m finding myself connected with the athletes.  I’m following their stories, their rises through the ranks, their funny commentaries on social media about themselves and their teammates. I’m listening to these women talk during interviews about topics that are important to me: challenges they face, uplifting one another, finding their own stories and who they truly are. Somehow, through all of these interactions, I have gained a renewed interest in sports. 

It wasn’t the shared identity or interest in sports that finally got me to remember the names of professional athletes or put the game on TV. It was that I saw a shared experience, the same struggles that many of us have: being questioned about talent, setting boundaries, trying to balance careers, mental health, and being true to ourselves. Naomi Osaka and Simone Biles stepping away from their careers to take care of themselves and their health.  Alysia Liu drawing boundaries and defining herself in her own way. Ilona Maher championing body positivity. Their journeys helped my lived experience as a woman feel a little more familiar, a little more seen. In their stories I saw humanity and a reminder that representation isn’t just about who we see, but what parts of ourselves we recognize in others. 

The books, the stories we share with students in schools might echo the same way. Flashes where students might see themselves represented through common experiences, emotions, and challenges. Instances where children might recognize their own stories and respond with a quiet, “hey, me too.”  This is exactly why representation matters: when students see reflections of their identities, they feel less alone and a little more understood. These connections can cultivate compassion, confidence and even a feeling of community.  

I still don’t identify as an athlete and it’s pretty unlikely that I will ever willingly join a sports team. But you will find me following some incredible athletes on social media and liking all their posts. I’ll still be cheering loudly and boldly at any live sporting event I’m attending. Perhaps, though, I’ll be a little bit louder for the women with a voice that is cheering for their power, their resistance, their continued pursuit of excellence. This representation feels personal; their presence feels like a win for anyone who’s ever been underestimated or whose struggles felt unseen. When I look at sports through this lens, it would seem we’re no longer in competition with each other.  Instead, we’re all on the same team. 

 

The joys of teaching: Part II, Learning from and with students

In my previous post I shared that one of the things I find joyful about teaching is witnessing students make progress in their learning and recognizing that I had some part in it. In this post, I’ll focus on the joy that I find comes from learning how to improve my teaching practices from direct work with students. Again, my hope in sharing the insights included in this post is that they help other educators reflect on what brings them joy in their teaching practices, then think of ways to use that joy to further fuel their passion for teaching and learning.

One of the reasons that I became a teacher beyond a love of helping and working with kids is that I really enjoy learning. To be more specific, I enjoy reading, writing, thinking and engaging in conversations with others about things that add value and meaning to their lives. Because I enjoy learning, I hope that what and how I teach inspires students to engage in the learning we do together and that it brings them some joy and adds meaning to their lives. To hopefully ignite or further fuel a joy of learning in students, I spend a lot of time preparing my lessons and assignments. During instructions I am constantly monitoring student responses to verify their engagement and understanding and while they are working on assigned tasks, I often meet with them in small groups or one-to-one to observe their progress and provide individualize constructive feedback to aid them in further progress.

Over the course of this year, I found that my small group and one-to-one meetings were where I had some of the best opportunities to see how my teaching of the curriculum landed with students.

While traditionally, teachers have been positioned as the ones to impart knowledge to students and it has often been seen as a one-way transactional process, I prefer to utilize a Paulo Freire educational approach where I recognize that both students and teachers are learners and participants in a learning community. This translates to mean that both students and teachers enter classroom spaces with valuable funds of knowledge to share and support the ongoing teaching and learning of all participants within the community. As a result of the sharing of knowledge both grow from their experience of collaborating and working together. I know that I have become and continue to become a better teacher from my work with students and the indirect and sometimes direct feedback they have given me.

For example, to keep myself and students organized this year, I often used slide decks for my whole group instructions. However, during a small group meeting, several students shared that sometimes I moved too fast through the slide decks and sometimes they found them difficult to see from their seat at the back of the classroom.  Finding this to be useful feedback, I made immediate changes. I first posted a digital copy of the deck on our virtual learning platform so students could access them through classroom devices while I taught lessons. I also slowed my rate of instruction to provide more thinking time for students and created workspaces closer to the front of the classroom where students could sit and work to obtain a better view of the screen.

I think being open to hearing and learning about what students need to support and be successful in their learning, then being responsive to those needs is such a vital part of my teaching practice; It reminds me that I teach students the curriculum not the curriculum to students. Understanding the subtle but clear difference between teaching students the curriculum and not the other way around ensures that adapting the curriculum to support student learning remains at the fore of my mind. When I learn simple or complex new ways to help students learn, it brings me immense joy.

Why STEP Implementation Still Matters in an Era of Literacy Screeners

The Steps to English Proficiency continua (STEP) is one of those teaching tools that never ceases to surprise me with new insights every time I come back to it. To be sure, there are moments when I wish it was updated, more reflective of changing pedagogy, and more streamlined. However, its importance in our linguistically diverse schools is undeniable.

To those who are unfamiliar, STEP is an Ontario Ministry-developed tool that help educators understand and track the English language development of multilingual language learners (MLLs). They are used to guide instruction, accommodations, and programming in oral communication, reading, and writing.

I have noticed in recent years that many educators are less intrigued by language proficiency and more concerned with literacy screener scores – and it’s not hard to see why.

Unlike other ways of measuring language development, STEP does not have a tangible and specific assessment that generates scores and identifies students at risk. Its purpose is to give educators a sense of a student’s level of English proficiency, so they can plan, adapt, and assess  instruction accordingly. Educators use triangulated assessment (observations, conversations, products) to place students at different proficiency levels. When a student remains “stuck” at a level for an extended period of time, it would be a possible indicator that additional assessments and direct support may be needed.

Screeners and diagnostics, on the other hand, really pinpoint which skills students need to develop to become better readers, and regular progress monitoring helps educators, students, and their families to map growth. What is important to note, however, is that literacy screeners assume that students already know and speak the language they mapping onto different combinations of letters, or graphemes. MLLs in the early STEPs, unlike proficient English speakers, have the more complex challenge of learning the English language at the same time that they are connecting its phonemes to written script.

So what does the STEP continua have to do with it? When we stop paying attention to language proficiency, we risk looking at literacy screener and diagnostic scores out of context. It is only when we look at both of them in tandem that we can gather useful insights about an MLL’s literacy portrait.

For example, an early STEP student may score low on a literacy screener because they are still learning English sounds and syntax, developing oral speech in English, acquiring vocabulary, or processing unfamiliar academic language: not necessarily because of an underlying reading difficulty. It is only when educators examine both STEP data and literacy assessment results together that they can build a more accurate and strengths-based literacy portrait of MLLs.

A colleague recently shared her frustration that the “MLL perspective” was noticeably absent from conversations with about literacy screeners at her school. Another literacy coach commented, “I’m tired of hearing teachers use ESL as an excuse for students doing poorly in reading.” Statements like these highlight the ongoing need for professional learning that bridges the gap between English language learning pedagogy and structured literacy approaches.

It is clear that STEP implementation is more important than ever. Without regularly utilizing and referencing shared language and tool for describing language proficiency for MLLs, especially those in the youngest and most formative years, we minimize and possibly even lose sight of a critical piece of data about students’ oral language foundations, which is well known to be a key indicator of student success.

Did you know that ETFO has a resource that may be a great starting point for you if you are interested in learning more?

Photo of cover of ETFO resource about MLLs and Early Reading Screeners

Enhance classroom practices with these considerations when implementing early reading screeners and analyzing the data from multilingual language learners. (PDF)

Planning for September…

As the school year comes to an end, it is so easy to just push everything away from our brains and toss it into the closet! As educators, we have done so much work and now it’s time to rest and rejuvenate.

I know September is the last on your mind but doing a little planning now will make a big difference later.

Here are some suggestions things I plan out for September

Reflect on your routines and classroom layout. Think about what worked well and what you may need to refine next year. I personally like to take pictures of anchor charts, layouts, bulletin boards, so I can refer to it in the fall.

Organize with intention.  I like to create a bin full of activities that I typically use at the beginning of the year such as collaborative tasks, welcome newsletters, class calendars and read alouds). Grouping activities by subjects/units and labelling it clearly helps to ensure I am not scrambling in my drive for ideas later. I also take time to think about key literacy and math assessments I will likely need.

Below are items in my own “September” Box, that work for any division and range of abilities

  • First Week Activities: Read Alouds, Low prep collaborative tasks 
  • Newsletters/Class Calendar from previous year I can refer to, reuse or adjust
  • Assessments materials for math and literacy
  • A checklist of routines I explicitly taught
  • Daybook basics to help me get started right away

Taking just a little bit of time now can help you start September feeling calm, prepared, and ready to focus on what matters most, your wellbeing!

Is this something you like to do? Or do you prefer to leave it for a bit later?

Amplifying Trans Youth Voices and Advocating for Trans People in Their Absence from Classroom Spaces

Growing Up Trans: In Our Own Words is an anthology of short stories, essays, poetry, and visual art created by trans youth from across Canada. The anthology is divided into seven sections that cover a range of topics that include childhood, families, bodies, everyday life, schools, mental health, and acceptance. The book is intended to educate readers about the diverse experiences of trans youth while also advocating that audiences exercise empathy, understanding, and support when interacting with trans youth.

The second entry in the schools section of the book includes an anonymous letter written by a trans youth between the ages of 14 – 17. In the letter the author responds to the social backlash on a sexual orientation and gender identity curriculum (SOGI). In their response they articulate the fear they experience attending school each day, the physical and verbal assaults they receive from peers, the insights they gained from witnessing trans peers commit suicide, and how they hope others see past their trans identity to their humanity so they can exist in community with others free from fear of harm.

I shared this letter, that I observed to be more of a personal essay due to the contents and structure with the middle school students I teach for three reasons. First to provide an example of a personal essay to help students understand the structure and contents of a personal essay. Second to help them gain insight to the experience of a trans youth with the hope of promoting empathy and understanding for the author and other members of the trans community. Third to support the work of dismantling various forms of transphobia present within my school board due to prejudices and ignorance.

In 2020, an Ontario Ministry of Education Review of my school board highlighted how various forms of homophobia, biphobia, and transphobia negatively impacted the learning and working conditions of 2SLGBTQ+ students and educators. Additionally, a 2021 student voice survey administered by the Human Rights Office within my board revealed that 2SLGBTQ+ students and staff experience the most discrimination after Black students that adversely effects their well-being in schools.

To dismantle the systemic forms of homophobia, biphobia, and transphobia within the board, in 2023 the board, in collaboration with community stakeholders created a Two-Spirit and LGBTQIA+ Action Plan. Within the action plan the board explicitly encourages educators to intentionally integrate intersectional 2SLGBTQ+ identities, contributions, and issues in all K-12 English and French curricula.

This action plan, along with the Ontario curriculum (Language; Health and Physical Education) informed the creation of this lesson. Following the reading, analysis, and discussion of the writing sample, a few students questioned why I chose to use this text with them. I responded by sharing the reasons above including information regarding the Ministry Review and the board’s 2SLGBTQ+ Action Plan. I then explained that an important part of their education involves learning about human differences and understanding that we all need not be the same to enjoy and be a part of a loving community.

To further reiterate my point, I drew parallels between phobias and other forms of discrimination such as transphobia and homophobia and how they both stem from a fear of difference or a lack of knowledge and understanding of others.

Some students felt uncomfortable with the parallels I drew between social phobias and other forms of discrimination while others said I was outright wrong to draw such parallels and that I tried to push the trans and gay agenda.

What surprised me about my student comments was that I thought as youth, they would have been more open to learning about different members of our community. If I had my time back again, following my lesson and witnessing student responses, I would have spent more time incorporating lessons and activities that help students to further develop their empathy skills, so they are more open to respecting and accepting human differences.

What this experience taught me is that just because students feel uncomfortable with lessons that expose them to people who are different from them and ideas that challenge their thinking does not mean I should avoid those topics; particularly when they advocate for more inclusive and socially just communities.

In, Teaching Critical Thinking, bell hooks’ defines a good education as one that goes beyond imparting knowledge and preparing students for their vocation to an education that encourages an ongoing commitment to social justice. As an educator, over the years I’ve come to understand that for me, a real commitment to social justice work involves learning about those who are different from me, finding meaningful ways to amplify their voices such as infusing their stories, histories, and issues in lessons, and advocating for others when they are absent from spaces because I think it is through education and advocacy that changes occur.

Keeping Families Connected

As educators, we know how important strong home school partnerships are. When families feel connected to what is happening in the classroom, they are often able to better able to support their child’s learning and engage in meaningful conversations. The challenge, of course, is finding the time to communicate while balancing everything else we do each day.

As both a parent and an educator, this is something I value deeply. It means a lot when my own children’s teachers share not only what is happening in class, but also the strengths they notice and the areas where my children are growing. It helps me feel connected, informed, and better able to support them at home.

Recently, I had the chance to speak with a Grade 6 teacher whose families consistently say they feel very connected throughout the year. I was curious to learn what makes the difference.

Her answer was simple: consistency.

She shared that communication starts early in the year with positive messages home. Sometimes it is a quick email, other times a short phone call to share something she noticed that made her smile. These small moments go a long way in building trust from the start.

While we often think of positive phone calls home, there are also times when we need to reach out to share concerns or ask for support. In those moments, I try to keep the same mindset of partnership. Sometimes my message is as simple as, “I wanted to share what I am noticing and see if you are noticing something similar at home”. That shift in language helps me open the door for collaboration and brings families into the process, rather than only when concerns become more serious.

She also shared that communication is built into routines she already has. Each week, she uses her school’s Virtual Learning Environment (VLE) to share what students are learning, post helpful resources, and give families a view into classroom life. At the end of the week, she posts a short update with reminders, upcoming events, assessments, and a snapshot of learning, what has been covered and what is coming next. This helps families stay informed and gives them natural ways to continue conversations at home.

As she shared her routine, I found myself reflecting on my own practice.

When I first started teaching, one of the things that made me the most nervous was calling parents. I often worried about saying the wrong thing or upsetting families, especially when I needed to call about a concern. Over time, I learned that these conversations are not about having the perfect words, but about building trust and approaching families with honesty and care.

My approach now looks a little different. Each month, I send home a brief curriculum overview for each subject. Throughout the week, I use our VLE to share tasks, feedback, and helpful links. I also make time for positive phone calls and emails whenever I can. Looking back, I realized we are both doing the same thing in different ways. Neither approach is wrong, we have simply built systems that work within our own routines.

What stayed with me from my conversion is that effective family communication is about being intentional so families feel informed, connected, and valued.